When you are actively trying to seduce a woman there are many "games" that you can play. However, games usually don't work, but there are other tactics that just might. Seducing a woman usually takes time, but if you are out with your friends at a bar or a club then you may be looking for a way to seduce a woman quickly.

It may start simply enough just by seeing the woman you want to meet across a bar. You may be with your friends, and she is with hers. While you may be able to get together as a group to talk to each other, how do you make that special connection with her if she seems to just want to be in a group setting? That can be done through what is known as deflection. You are basically taking the situation and by using psychology you are turning the situation around to get what you need.

More specifically, you are no longer going to focus on the woman that you want to seduce. Instead you are going to focus on her friends. By paying attention to her friends and giving them the attention that you really want to give to the woman that you are interested in, you are actually challenging her ego a bit and almost forcing her to pay attention to you. Subconsciously she will be much more interested in you because you are not paying attention to her at all. It is all about wanting what she can't have, and when she sees that you are not interested in her, she will become more playful and flirty.

When you talk to the women you want to use eye contact to get your way. While you are talking to the woman you do want, take a glance over at her friends and give a quick smile to show that you may be interested in them as well. This gives the woman that you do want a sense of competition which will make her try to get you even more. Then you want to casually make physical contact with her friends as well by touching them on the lower back or arm while laughing and joking. Finally, you may want to try standing more towards her friends then to her which will really show her that you are playing hard to get, which will make her try to get you even harder.

Using deflection may not always get you the girl that you want, but most of the time her ego will not allow her to take second place to another woman and you will seduce her without her even knowing it. It makes it more challenging to her, and all women love a challenge.